The Standard You're Quietly Exempting Yourself From
Why leaders lose credibility through invisible exceptions
Track 1
Identity Under Pressure
Session Overview
Leaders often set standards for their teams that they quietly exempt themselves from. They arrive late but expect punctuality. They interrupt but expect focus. They delay decisions but demand urgency. Under pressure, leaders rationalize these exceptions because they are busy, carrying more, or dealing with issues others cannot see. Teams notice. And when they notice, standards weaken everywhere.
The Leadership Pattern This Session Interrupts
Leaders believe their role entitles them to different rules. Under pressure, exceptions multiply. Teams stop taking standards seriously because the leader does not model them. Credibility erodes quietly, and enforcement becomes hollow.
The Behavior We Install
Model the standards you expect from others, especially when pressure makes exceptions tempting.
Why This Behavior Matters Under Pressure
Pressure makes exemption feel justified. Leaders think they have earned flexibility. But every visible exception signals that standards are negotiable. Teams calibrate not to what leaders say, but to what leaders do. Modeling is the most powerful form of enforcement.
The Session Experience
Leaders identify where they have quietly exempted themselves. We examine the impact of those exemptions on team behavior and credibility. Leaders commit to visible consistency in one standard they have been bending.
Session Outcomes
- Increased leadership credibility
- Stronger team adherence to standards
- Reduced cynicism about expectations
- More effective enforcement
- A culture where standards apply to everyone
GDD Anchors
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