Track 3: Development & Delegation
Session 15

Why Guiding Isn't Working

How misdiagnosing Know vs Grow stalls development

Track 3

Development & Delegation

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Session Overview

Many leaders believe guiding is the answer to most performance issues. When someone struggles, they ask questions, offer guidance, or provide encouragement. This session exposes why guiding often fails. Leaders misdiagnose the problem. Some situations require clarity and standards. Others require patience and struggle. Treating every issue as a guiding moment creates confusion and dependence.

The Leadership Pattern This Session Interrupts

Leaders default to guiding because it feels supportive. Under pressure, guiding becomes a substitute for direction or accountability. Teams become confused about what is expected because guiding replaces clear standards.

The Behavior We Install

Diagnose whether the situation requires knowing (clarity and direction) or growing (patience and struggle) before responding.

Why This Behavior Matters Under Pressure

Pressure makes guiding feel safe. It avoids the discomfort of direct instruction or clear correction. But guiding only works when capability is present. When people need clarity, guiding creates confusion. Accurate diagnosis accelerates development.

The Session Experience

Leaders practice diagnosing real situations. We distinguish between know problems (clarity needed) and grow problems (capability development needed). Leaders match their response to the actual need.

Session Outcomes

  • Faster development through accurate diagnosis
  • Reduced confusion about expectations
  • Guiding applied where it actually helps
  • Direction provided where clarity is needed
  • Teams that know when to expect support vs. guidance

GDD Anchors

Know vs Grow
Development Discipline
Standards = Support
Identity Under Pressure

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